Being Interested: The Sales Principle of Curiosity

Skip Lyford
January 23, 2026

Guiding Principle: Curiosity

Curiosity doesn’t always get the spotlight in sales. It’s not flashy. It doesn’t sound “strategic” or come with a slick one-liner. But for us, it’s a superpower. At Blind Zebra, Curiosity is one of the Guiding Principles in our Sales Operating System. Because when reps lead with sincere interest - not a sales pitch - the whole dynamic shifts. Walls come down. Real conversation opens up. And the pressure to “prove yourself” disappears.

What Curiosity actually looks like

Let’s cut to it: Being curious means being interested in others. Period. That’s it. It’s not about interrogating your buyer or pretending to care as a tactic. It’s about showing up with real interest in who they are, what they’re solving for, and how their world works. You’ve probably heard us say it before: Be interested, not interesting. Too many reps get this backwards. They try to impress. They come in over-prepared to show how smart they are. They speak in bullet points, use jargon, and try to “educate” instead of connect. The result? Buyers tune out. Because nobody likes being talked at. And nobody trusts someone who clearly wants to win more than they want to help.

Curiosity is the opposite of performance

This principle pairs tightly with Authenticity - because when you stop performing, you free yourself up to actually listen. Curiosity:

  • Keeps your ego out of the room
  • Lets you slow down and notice things
  • Helps you uncover the real issue behind the stated problem
  • Shows the buyer that you’re here to understand, not to push

And when a buyer feels understood? They start talking. The good stuff comes out. You uncover deals that other reps miss because they were too busy selling.

Why Curiosity belongs in a Sales Operating System

We don’t leave this to chance. Inside the Blind Zebra Sales Operating System, curiosity isn’t just a mindset - it’s built in:

  • Our discovery process puts listening first, not pitching
  • Our deal reviews ask “what’s their world like?” not “what’s our next step?”
  • Our 1:1 coaching digs into how reps think, not just what they’re doing
  • Even our manager tools are designed to pull real thinking out of people - not push canned responses onto them

Because a curious sales culture makes everything more dynamic, more human, and honestly, more fun.

This principle makes sales simpler. And more effective

Curiosity takes the pressure off. You don’t need the perfect pitch. You don’t need all the answers. You don’t even need to talk that much. You just need to ask good questions, listen with intent, and care enough to stay with the thread. Do that consistently, and you’ll:

  • Build trust faster
  • Find better opportunities
  • Handle objections with empathy, not defensiveness
  • Actually enjoy your conversations more

In short: selling gets a lot easier when you’re genuinely curious.

Want to see what it looks like to build a sales team around curiosity?

We coach sales orgs to lead with curiosity, not ego. And we wrap it inside a full Sales Operating System that keeps your team structured, human, and real. If you're looking for something more sustainable than “smile and dial,” we should talk. Book a Coin Toss Convo Let’s get curious.

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